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New Year Speeches – How about the 44th US President Barack Obama Inaugural Speech

For those of you that had to prepare and present a News Year’s Speech I hope that it went well!

It is always difficult to know when to stop saying Happy New Year and what to say looking forward in any new year, but I’d like to start this year by presenting a speech by the new American President – Mr Barack Obama:

44th US President Barack Obama Inaugural Speech on 20th January 2009

My fellow citizens – I stand here today humbled by the task before us. Grateful for the trust you have bestowed. Mindful of the sacrifices borne by our ancestors.

I thank President Bush for his service to our nation, as well as the generosity and cooperation he has shown throughout this transition.

44 Americans have now taken the presidential oath, the words have been spoken during rising tides of prosperity and the still waters of peace, yet, every so often the oath is taken amidst gathering clouds and raging storms. At these moments, America has carried on not simply because of the skill or vision of those in high office, but because “We the People” have remained faithful to the ideals of our forbearers, and true to our founding documents.

So it has been. So it must be with this generation of Americans. That we are in the midst of crisis is now well understood, our nation is at war against a far-reaching network of violence and hatred, our economy is badly weakened, a consequence of greed and irresponsibility on the part of some, but also our collective failure to make hard choices and prepare the nation for a new age. Homes have been lost, jobs shed, businesses shuttered.

Our health care is too costly, our schools fail too many, and each day brings further evidence that the ways we use energy strengthen our adversaries and threaten our planet.

These are the indicators of crisis, subject to data and statistics. Less measurable but no less profound is a sapping of confidence across our land, a nagging fear that America’s decline is inevitable and that the next generation must lower its sights.

Today I say to you that the challenges we face are real. They are serious and they are many. They will not be met easily or in a short span of time.

But know this, America: they will be met.

On this day, we gather because we have chosen hope over fear, unity of purpose over conflict and discord.

On this day, we come to proclaim an end to the petty grievances and false promises, the recriminations and worn out dogmas, that for far too long have strangled our politics.

We remain a young nation, but in the words of scripture, the time has come to set aside childish things. The time has come to reaffirm our enduring spirit’ to choose our better history, to carry forward that precious gift, that noble idea, passed on from generation to generation.

The God-given promise that all are equal, all are free, and all deserve a chance to pursue their full measure of happiness.

In reaffirming the greatness of our nation, we understand that greatness is never a given, it must be earned. Our journey has never been one of short-cuts or settling for less. It has not been the path for the faint-hearted, for those who prefer leisure over work, or seek only the pleasures of riches and fame. Rather, it has been the risk-takers, the doers, the makers of things. Some celebrated but more often men and women obscure in their labour, who have carried us up the long, rugged path towards prosperity and freedom.

For us, they packed up their few worldly possessions and travelled across oceans in search of a new life.

For us, they toiled in sweatshops and settled the West, endured the lash of the whip and ploughed the hard earth.

For us, they fought and died, in places like Concord and Gettysburg, Normandy and Khe Sahn.

Time and again these men and women struggled and sacrificed and worked till their hands were raw so that we might live a better life, they saw America as bigger than the sum of our individual ambitions, greater than all the differences of birth or wealth or faction.

This is the journey we continue today, we remain the most prosperous, powerful nation on Earth!

Our workers are no less productive than when this crisis began!

Our minds are no less inventive, our goods and services no less needed than they were last week or last month or last year!

Our capacity remains undiminished!

But our time of standing pat, of protecting narrow interests and putting off unpleasant decisions, that time has surely passed.

Starting today, we must pick ourselves up, dust ourselves off, and begin again the work of remaking America.

For everywhere we look, there is work to be done, the state of the economy calls for action, bold and swift, and we will act, not only to create new jobs, but to lay a new foundation for growth. We will build the roads and bridges, the electric grids and digital lines that feed our commerce and bind us together.

We will restore science to its rightful place, and wield technology’s wonders to raise health care’s quality and lower its cost. We will harness the sun and the winds and the soil to fuel our cars and run our factories. And we will transform our schools and colleges and universities to meet the demands of a new age. All this we can do. And all this we will do.

Now, there are some who question the scale of our ambitions, who suggest that our system cannot tolerate too many big plans. Their memories are short, for they have forgotten what this country has already done, what free men and women can achieve when imagination is joined to common purpose, and necessity to courage.

What the cynics fail to understand is that the ground has shifted beneath them, that the stale political arguments that have consumed us for so long no longer apply.

The question we ask today is not whether our government is too big or too small, but whether it works, whether it helps families find jobs at a decent wage, care they can afford, a retirement that is dignified.

Where the answer is yes, we intend to move forward.

Where the answer is no, programs will end.

And those of us who manage the public’s dollars will be held to account, to spend wisely, reform bad habits, and do our business in the light of day, because only then can we restore the vital trust between a people and their government.

Nor is the question before us whether the market is a force for good or ill, its power to generate wealth and expand freedom is unmatched, but this crisis has reminded us that without a watchful eye, the market can spin out of control, and that a nation cannot prosper long when it favours only the prosperous.

The success of our economy has always depended not just on the size of our Gross Domestic Product, but on the reach of our prosperity, on the ability to extend opportunity to every willing heart, not out of charity, but because it is the surest route to our common good.

As for our common defence, we reject as false the choice between our safety and our ideals. Our Founding Fathers, faced with perils we can scarcely imagine, drafted a charter to assure the rule of law and the rights of man, a charter expanded by the blood of generations. Those ideals still light the world, and we will not give them up for expedience’s sake. And so to all other peoples and governments who are watching today, from the grandest capitals to the small village where my father was born know that America is a friend of each nation and every man, woman, and child who seeks a future of peace and dignity, and we are ready to lead once more.

Recall that earlier generations faced down fascism and communism not just with missiles and tanks, but with the sturdy alliances and enduring convictions. They understood that our power alone cannot protect us, nor does it entitle us to do as we please. Instead, they knew that our power grows through its prudent use, our security emanates from the justness of our cause, the force of our example, the tempering qualities of humility and restraint.

We are the keepers of this legacy, guided by these principles once more, we can meet those new threats that demand even greater effort. Even greater cooperation and understanding between nations. We will begin to responsibly leave Iraq to its people, and forge a hard-earned peace in Afghanistan. With old friends and former foes, we’ll work tirelessly to lessen the nuclear threat, and roll back the spectre of a warming planet.

We will not apologize for our way of life, nor will we waver in its defence, and for those who seek to advance their aims by inducing terror and slaughtering innocents, we say to you now that our spirit is stronger and cannot be broken; you cannot outlast us, and we will defeat you.

For we know that our patchwork heritage is a strength, not a weakness. We are a nation of Christians and Muslims, Jews and Hindus and non-believers. We are shaped by every language and culture, drawn from every end of this Earth and because we have tasted the bitter swill of civil war and segregation, and emerged from that dark chapter stronger and more united, we cannot help but believe that the old hatreds shall someday pass. That the lines of tribe shall soon dissolve, that as the world grows smaller, our common humanity shall reveal itself and that America must play its role in ushering in a new era of peace.

To the Muslim world we seek a new way forward, based on mutual interest and mutual respect. To those leaders around the globe who seek to sow conflict, or blame their society’s ills on the West, know that your people will judge you on what you can build, not what you destroy. To those who cling to power through corruption and deceit and the silencing of dissent, know that you are on the wrong side of history, but that we will extend a hand if you are willing to unclench your fist.

To the people of poor nations, we pledge to work alongside you to make your farms flourish and let clean waters flow, to nourish starved bodies and feed hungry minds. And to those nations like ours that enjoy relative plenty, we say we can no longer afford indifference to the suffering outside our borders nor can we consume the world’s resources without regard to effect.

For the world has changed, and we must change with it.

As we consider the road that unfolds before us, we remember with humble gratitude those brave Americans who, at this very hour, patrol far-off deserts and distant mountains. They have something to tell us, just as the fallen heroes who lie in Arlington whisper through the ages. We honour them not only because they are guardians of our liberty, but because they embody the spirit of service, a willingness to find meaning in something greater than themselves. And yet, at this moment a moment that will define a generation, it is precisely this spirit that must inhabit us all.

For as much as government can do and must do, it is ultimately the faith and determination of the American people upon which this nation relies. It is the kindness to take in a stranger when the levees break, the selflessness of workers who would rather cut their hours than see a friend lose their job which sees us through our darkest hours. It is the fire fighter’s courage to storm a stairway filled with smoke, but also a parent’s willingness to nurture a child, that finally decides our fate.

Our challenges may be new, the instruments with which we meet them may be new, but those values upon which our success depends; honesty and hard work, courage and fair play, tolerance and curiosity, loyalty and patriotism. These things are old. These things are true. They have been the quiet force of progress throughout our history. What is demanded then is a return to these truths. What is required of us now is a new era of responsibility, a recognition on the part of every American, that we have duties to ourselves, our nation, and the world, duties that we do not grudgingly accept but rather seize gladly, firm in the knowledge that there is nothing so satisfying to the spirit, so defining of our character, than giving our all to a difficult task.

This is the price and the promise of citizenship. This is the source of our confidence, the knowledge that God calls on us to shape an uncertain destiny.

This is the meaning of our liberty and our creed, why men and women and children of every race and every faith can join in celebration across this magnificent mall, and why a man whose father less than sixty years ago might not have been served at a local restaurant can now stand before you to take a most sacred oath.

So let us mark this day with remembrance, of who we are and how far we have travelled. In the year of America’s birth, in the coldest of months, a small band of patriots huddled by dying campfires on the shores of an icy river. The capital was abandoned, the enemy was advancing, the snow was stained with blood. At a moment when the outcome of our revolution was most in doubt, the father of our nation ordered these words be read to the people:

“Let it be told to the future world that in the depth of winter when nothing but hope and virtue could survive, that the city and the country, alarmed at one common danger, came forth to meet it.”

America, in the face of our common dangers, in this winter of our hardship, let us remember these timeless words. With hope and virtue, let us brave once more the icy currents, and endure what storms may come. Let it be said by our children’s children that when we were tested we refused to let this journey end, that we did not turn back nor did we falter; and with eyes fixed on the horizon and God’s grace upon us, we carried forth that great gift of freedom and delivered it safely to future generations.

Thank you. God bless you and God bless the United States of America.

Now that’s a speech and this is exactly what the UK needs – we need change, as did the Americans and it is about time the UK’s Government realised this! So come on Gordon Brown call and election and let the public decide on what is best for the UK. We need a change! We need to have a choice and if the choice is to re-select Labour then so be it, but don’t be arrogant and don’t be foolish, this country needs the Government to listen to the people today!

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Christmas speeches

So after Christmas and all those parties and all that food are you all looking forward to the new year?

So did you boss give a boring speech at your Christmas party or was it a funny speech?

Well I would like to take this opportunity of wishing you all a Happy New Year and to have a prosperous 2009 – lets hope that the financial crisis starts to improve and things get better as soon as possible.

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The grooms speech

As with the Father of the bride speech the groom traditionally gets up to say a few words and in some cases and more so these days the bride will join her groom in speaking to their guests.

The groom must make sure that he says all of his thank yous and comments as a couple, especially if his bride does not join him in the speech. During the grooms speech the presents should be given out to all those people who have helped with the organisation of the wedding. Presents should be given to both parents and in particular the mums, a large bunch of flowers always does the trick. Presents should also be given to the bridesmaids, the best man, the page boys and a nice touch is to give the bride a large bunch of flowers too.

The groom’s speech should include the following:

1. I always think that the groom should start his speech with commenting on how beautiful his bride looks and tell the guests how happy he is to have married her.

2. Even though the father of the bride might well have thanked everyone for coming to the wedding, it is good for the groom to thank everyone too. The groom might also want to make mention of those guests who have travelled a long way to attend their special day.

3. The groom should then thank the bride’s parents for the reception and of course if this is a shared cost between both parents then make sure to thank both. The groom should then go on to comment on how good it is to become a part of the bride’s family, and then to return some sort of comment to the father of the bride where he has made comment to the effect that he has passed over the responsibility of looking after his daughter. The groom should say that he will look after his daughter and love her for ever or words to that effect.

4. The groom should thank his own parents for his upbringing and family life.

5. The groom should also thank his best man for his services and it is normal for the couple to buy him a gift and even nicer to have it engraved. The groom might want to get a few words in about the best man at this point, as he is very likely to humiliate him in his speech. Guests will like to see this sort of banter and this will help set the scene well for the best man’s speech.

6. A short story about how the groom met his lovely bride should be told and a thank you to her parents for producing such a lovely daughter will go down well.

7. The groom should close with a toast to the bridesmaids and a nice touch is to thank each of them by name. Traditionally these days it is nice to present the bridesmaids with flowers too.

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The Father of the Bride Speech

The first of the wedding speeches is the father of the bride’s speech. This speech traditionally welcomes the groom into his family and thanks those family members that have contributed to the wedding.

The father of the bride will traditionally include the following elements:

1. As the first speaker at the wedding reception the father of the bride should welcome the groom’s parents and then the other relatives attending the wedding, followed by friends and the other guests. The father of the bride should also make special mention to those guests that have travelled from afar.

2. The father of the bride should make special thanks to the helpers of the wedding and include in this a special thank you to their wife or partner, as it is very likely that they will have worked very closely with their daughter to arrange the wedding day and reception.

3. The father of the bride’s speech will traditionally include plenty of reference to his daughter and praise about her appearance, her achievements, and about her growing up and that she is now entering a whole new life experience. This is the time for the father of the bride to relinquish responsibility for his daughter and to hand this over to the groom.

4. The father should welcome the groom into family and make reference to the bringing together of two families. The father of the bride might want to explain about the first time of meeting the groom and perhaps make some light jokes about this.

5. The father of the bride is normally responsible for offering some words of wisdom to newlyweds, which should be kept to being light hearted and humorous.

6. Finish by proposing a toast to the bride and the groom and wish them every happiness for the future.

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Wedding speeches

The sequence for wedding speeches is governed by customs and there is a general guide for weddings in the UK, but there even then are exceptions to these rules.

In the UK the father of the bride normally speaks first followed by the groom and then the best man, however, in Scotland and at a Jewish weddings the speeches between the groom and the best man are swapped.

Really and truly it does not matter at the end of the day, except for if you are a traditionalist, then you might want to follow the normal protocol, as follows:

Father of the bride speech

The father of the bride is there to start the wedding speech process which normally takes place at then end of the meal, at the reception of the wedding. However, as part of the role of a good best man the speeches should ideally be introduced by the best man and the best way to attract everybody’s attention is to tap lightly on a glass with a spoon.

It is likely that the original thought behind this tradition is that the father of the bride traditionally paid for the wedding and sometimes still does. It is only fare that he gets the first opportunity to have a say and be first to do so. If however, the other parents or indeed any other family members have contributed to the cost of the wedding it is the father of the bride’s role to thank these people at this point to acknowledge their contribution to the cost of the wedding.

The basis behind his speech is to talk about his daughter and acknowledging that she is going out into the big wide world and that he is handing over care to her new partner. Fathers and daughters are always thought to have very special relationship so to give her up to another man is one of the hardest things for him to do. The father of the bride should also officially welcome the groom into his own family and it might be appropriate at this stage to talk about how he first met the groom, adding any appropriate jokes to keep things light hearted is fine. Of course weddings are all about the bringing together of two families so the father of the bride should welcome the joining of the two families.

For details of what to include in the father of the bride speech click this link

The grooms speech

Traditionally in the UK the best man’s speech comes straighter after the father of the bride’s speech and that of the best man. It is a chance for you to thank everybody, and not least the parents and all the people who have made the wedding day happen. More than likely the bride will have played are large part in the organisation so don’t for get to thank her too.

Also, these days it is by no means uncommon for the bride to speak and in some cases the bride and groom can do a joint speech. If the bride is going to speak there is no tradition as to what she should say, so this is totally up to you as a couple. There is nothing wrong in the both of you doing the thank yous, for example.

An alternative is that if for whatever reason the father of the bride is not present, then the bride might want to speak first in the traditional father of the bride slot. At then end of the day there are no rules, just traditions so it is your wedding so you can decide what happens and in what sequence.

If the bride does not join in with the speech is important to remember that all your words should be as if from both of you. Try starting your speech with “My wife and I” or perhaps “My NEW wife and I” or another alternative is “Mrs X and I” where the X is your wife’s new surname – this is likely to bring some smiles or laughs to set you speech of to a good start.

For details of what to include in the grooms speech click this link

The Best Man Speech

If you are about to be best man at a wedding, I don’t want to put added pressure on you, but you probably realise that of all the speeches at a wedding reception, the best man’s speech is the one that everybody is waiting for.

All speeches at a wedding should be light hearted and good humoured with the odd joke or funny comment to make the guests laugh. However, the best man’s speech has traditionally been the speech to draw the most laughs and is normally there to humiliate the groom. Don’t worry about preparing a professional speech or about being a comedian, as you will find that you will get laughs from even the slightest quip. Remember also that a number of the guests will have been consuming an amount of alcohol and will have just eaten, so they will be relaxed.

Also, by the time you have to make your speech and on the assumption the wedding does not have a master of ceremonies, you will have stood up to introduce the speeches before yours, so you will at this stage be familiar with the audience.

The role of best man has many sides, you are there as the best friend to the groom and although your speech role is to humiliate him you are also there to support the couple on their important day as the head of all the wedding day assistants, like the bridesmaids.

For details of what to include in the best man’s speech click this link

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How to write a Best Mans Speech

When you set out to write a best man’s speech there are a number of things that your speech must contain and there we have given you some guidelines to follow to make your speech both interesting and funny. Writing a best man’s speech is easier than you may think.

Things to include in your “Best Man’s” speech, as a must and as a bare minimum:

- Firstly you should thank the groom for his speech, and the father of the bride for his.
- It is a good idea to also thank all for attending, even though the groom and father of the bride have already done so.
- Give up a toast for both of the parents of the couple and you need to thank them on behalf of the bride and groom.
- If requested you will need to read out any telegrams, emails or cards that the bride and groom ask you to read out.
- Make a final toast and a quick mention to wish the happy couple all the best for the future.


If you do the above and if you are not used to speaking then this will be fine to finish there. You might not be happy with trying to be funny, as this can fall flat where you try to tell a joke that is either not funny of delivered so that no one laughs. However, if you fancy making your speech a little bit more like the traditional best man speech, then add the following items:

- Explain to room how the bride and groom are as a couple together, how they met and go on to tell any stories you have chosen about them.
- Tell a funny story about your friend and put as much emotion into your story as you can. Emotion in a story will ensure the best laughs and will ensure your audience will enjoy your story and find it funny. When choosing a funny story, test it out on a friend and avoid stories that include ex-girl-friends, as this might make things a little awkward for your friend.
- You might want to add to your speech details of what the groom is like, how you met and what he has achieved.
- Include in your speech about the bride and explain to your audience what she is like and what impact she has made on his life, you might want to make this bit light-hearted and can usually get some laughs here.

Make sure you practice your speech beforehand and a good place to practice is in front of a mirror. It is natural to be nervous and I recommend you have at least one drink beforehand to help relax you, but don’t get drunk before you speak as this will not look good if you are slurring your words.

Keep your speech to within 10 or so minutes and don’t ramble on and on, as you will bore your audience – Good luck to you.

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Christmas party speeches

Believe it or not Christmas is fast approaching, as we see the supermarkets displaying the usual Christmasy things on their shelves.

So I hope that you have all booked your office parties, as time is drawing near and if you don’t book it soon you might be left with having to make do with a “Fish n Chip” takeaway! Well maybe not quite as bad as that, but you certainly need to think about booking your tables sooner rather than later to make sure you get somewhere of your choice, as compared to the last resort option.

So what are your thoughts on the Christmas party speech, should the owners or directors or perhaps your manager being making a speech at your party. This is debateable, and the content of the speech is worth discussing.

There is nothing worse than someone that loves the sound of their own voice and making a speech at an office party that goes on, and on and on and perhaps on a bit more. It might be okay to thank the staff for their work for the last 12 months and maybe use the time to hand out awards for “best employee of the year”, but much more than this might find your staff yawning and looking forward to the entertainment arranged for later.

Tell us about your “office Party” speech nightmares or the funny ones you have heard, as we’d love to hear them.

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How to control your nerves before and during a speech

Most people suffer from nerves leading up to making a speech, which is only natural!

The way that I have dealt with this in the past is to do lots of positive thinking and to go into a separate room and let out my fears by shouting as loud as I dare depending on the location and who is around.

This does work for me, but it would be good to hear how others control their fear of public speaking, which is a fear that more have higher up than death! Which when you think about it is crazy – speaking in front of people will not kill you and yet we fear it so much.

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Longest or most boring speech!

Tells us about the longest or most boring speech you have had to endure!

We have all been to that wedding or business event when someone gets up that just loves the sound of their own voice! When this happens the whole room wants to shoot themselves for the boredom.

We want to hear your funny stories of how you managed to endure one of these speeches, where was it and who was it – was it the best man speech or perhaps the father of the bride? You might have even managed to sneek out.

Email you stories or better still register with speechs4u.com and post your story!

We want to hear from you today!

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